Staying In Love| Not One Of Those Life With HIV Stories

This is not an attempt to make light of the regular life with HIV stories. No, this is a move to show how love can thrive even amidst the most difficult of situations. Strange things happen. If ever you’re told to be sure you keep your records clean, don’t ever joke with that sh!t. Don’t. Seriously. Just don’t! I was once diagnosed with HIV. Strange, right? Yeah. But here’s some sh!t that’s even weirder than that – I’m presently not HIV positive. In fact, I’ve never been HIV positive. No,…

Loving A Criminal? | Here’s How To Run Background Check For Online Dating

…run background check for online dating…A certain Facebook influencer defrauds his online dates to the tune of over 30,000 USD…

How To Make A Mess Of Life After Divorce And Still Be Great At It

So, over the weekend, I had the honour of sitting, and having a profound discussion with a family friend – Ngozi. She is a deeply amazing woman, a single mom, divorced over 2 years now and totally killing it! Oh yeah, you know what she said to me? “Emmy, see, I’ve been dating after divorce, loving after divorce, I’ve had sex after divorce, but forget all that, my life after divorce has been messy and I absolutely love it!” Messy? Ah. Of course, I was as gobsmacked as you also…

This Is Probably The Strongest Argument For Why Single Mothers Can’t Raise Male Kids

​I’ve often had people tell me, “single mothers can’t raise male kids right” and seriously, I always regarded such “funny notions” as absolute and utter bunkum because, let’s face it, the idea is plain “sexist,” amidst having a bold, blocked lettered sign post dangling down its neck, with “stereotype” written on it. However, something recently caused me to reconsider my stand – Dotun’s Childhood Story. Dotun’s story is probably the strongest argument for why single mothers can’t raise male kids. I bet you’ll feel same way too after reading it.…

7 Things You Learn As A Single Mother Loving A Married Man

cum

Ifeoma was the woman outside. She came to accept it. A single mom, yet she was the side chic of a man with wife. People judge her, and for good reasons too. She is a Relationship Therapist, she is a thought leader, a moral compass to many. A friend told her to keep her deeds secret but would she? She was up against her self-condemnation. The moment has come to pen a story on her experience because, the only entity that would cut deeper than people’s judgements is deceit. She…

At least 7/8 Of These Habits Say Your Man Is Capable Of Rape

man and fist

So, the million dollar question, what set of habits say your man is capable of rape? Signs, they’re always there, even long before a rape victim stumbles upon the hideous truth, that some kind, friendly man she’d known for eons is actually capable of such bestiality. The more I think of it though, the more I’m reminded of the possibility of more females falling through this worm hole. This might sound rather harsh, but I think a lot of women aren’t as alert as they ought to, talk of sleeping…

At least 17/20 Of These Facts Would Make Any Woman Swoon Over Herself

Beauty In Imperfections.

You’re a woman and…. …underneath your breasts, probably all over your abdomen, down to your waist line, you’ve got scars from numerous life threatening cuts, and it makes you feel very insecure… …after childbirth, you got stretch marks on your stomach, even down to your legs. Maybe you can’t even wear certain types of clothing any longer and you’ve struggled with insecurities ever since… …you’ve suffered acne scars, probably discoloration and eczema since childhood. Perhaps, everyone thinks your hygiene is below par, not caring about the story behind your scars……

Dr. Cum: Knowing When To Leave

I used to date this girl when I was 16, and till this moment, I still wonder what led me down that path. Very nice girl. She was friends with an ex – yeah, I know, I already had 2 exes even at that age. So, how she became my girl? Well, let’s just say, it was a typical case of “the friendly mail man snatching your woman.” She was the “mail man.” Hehehe. Anyway, thinking of it now, I believe my “sins” sort of caught up with me at…

Dr. Cum: When Sex Becomes Painful

girl hold genitals

Hi Doc, For a while now, every time my husband and I engage in sex, it hurts in my vagina really bad upon initial entry. The pain is usually extremely sharp, exactly like multiple stab wounds or something. After some time, it subsides, and the situation returns to normal. Later on, however, I find sitting inconvenient, though, no hurt is usually felt, its only an uneasy feeling, which soon fades. Initially, I felt I had yeast infection, and I quickly did a general test but the result showed there’s nothing…