Welcome to Facebook where everybody shuns out conclusive experiments without NO facts to back it up! We are all intellectuals on here, forming we know it all and stereotyping all the way. We type serious something without watering it down by at least adding ‘some or most’ to it
Yesterday Aunty with quadruple experience in married Igbo women matters dropped her atomic bomb ‘truth’ on her wall, she wrote
“I have noticed something prevalent among-st Igbo women.
They are more likely to be married to men they don’t love just for the marital status.
They are more likely to have parents who taunt them to get married and as such alienate them which drives them to settle for men who are not par with them or men who objectify them, just so as to be a Mrs somebody.
They are more likely to get married to men who are not compatible as regards genotype or any other compatibility tests as they depend on the Holy Spirit to do them a miracle as far as they get to marry before 30 or 40 as the case maybe.
They are more than likely to call out single women for being frustrated even when their marriages are a sad excuse for a matrimony.
They are more likely to marry a man who is lazy and unproductive and also fend for him just to bear a title that by default attracts “respect” to them.
Igbos are more likely to stigmatize single, divorced women and single mums .
Igbo women will marry in absentia to “ghosts” that live in the “abroad” and answer names of men they might never get to meet . Oh well until they check out, tired and worn out from the whole facade.
They are more likely to resign their jobs or stop their businesses according to the whims and caprices of their husbands because marriage is the most important thing to them. Whether they are sad and unproductive . It doesn’t matter.
My fellow Igbo women, marriage is beautiful but most of you will never know the true beauty of it, if you continue to compromise your standards to be socially correct.
We need a reorientation amongst members of our tribe. The patriarchy has eaten deep.
Katchy Ohiaeri, 2017, saying the hard core truth.”
Many people actually agreed with her, one of them Nzeribe Enzo commented
“They are more likely to get married to men who are not compatible as regards genotype or any other compatibility tests as they depend on the Holy Spirit to do them a miracle as far as they get to marry before 30 or 40 as the case maybe”
Truth must be told”
Katchy replied her “Am AS and I know many people who married same genotype and expecting a miracle. Me I just de watch them like film”
John Oke uno commented “Very true in many cases.”
Katchy replied him chanting “This is truth corner. Any body wey say I de lie, nne ya!”
Winifred Ihuoma asked her “Why did you post this so late na?
You for wait until morning so that people will read this in day time.
Only one Oga gave a contrary opinion and they all pounced on him(wrong thread bro?)
Then one ‘Bronus’ wakad from nowhere and tried straight up oponurizing?
I be wan vex with the generalization of the analysis but I kuku held myself, e no concern me at all at all. Make I save my anger mbok, nobody send me go vex abeg?