Man insists on Sex as Wife Fasts and Prays | Story from Nnamdi Victor

Dear People of Nigeria, please come to my rescue. I honestly don’t know what to say again. Some people, some where on face book are already Validating Rape again in the confinement of marriage. Hmm.. Na wa, the message was hosted by a popular founder of a SEX Group on Facebook ‘ILA OTU’ named Nnamdi Vitor hosted a true story of this incidence. READ ALSO : Don’t Ever Say These 7 Things To A Man You Love Please what would you do if you were in this situation…? it reads; “My wife…

Dear ‘feminist’, why so angry? Viola Okolie

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Dear Facebook Feminists, Why are you all so angry? What exactly are all these issues you have with men and women and children and yourselves and marriage and etc and etc? Who spat in your akamu? I get that we are Nigerians and there is this burning desire to complicate the stupid out of issues or else, we find it difficult to relate, but then surely it gets to a point where too much is more than enough? Are you at that point yet? Or do we have to suffer…

Prostitutes and their Customers are the same

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Facebook is in an uproar again. This time, it’s over prostitutes and their customers. You’ve probably seen the viral video or heard the story. If not, let me do a recap. A man picked up a girl at the gates of the University of Uyo. After an evening of fun during which he displayed his talent as a cash boss, they proceeded to his home for some more intimate entertainment. The morning after, he dropped her off where he’d picked her up, and handed her a parting gift of a…

Cab Conversations | Tips to fast get you out of trouble

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My life is an interesting one, I agree. It’s not as if I seek out all these interesting situations o—they come looking for me. I’ve long given up on trying to avoid them; it’s much more fun to revel in those moments. Today I went to watch Fast and Furious 8. Yes, that’s how I am. I won’t watch movies at the cinema when it comes out, but much later when everyone’s done gushing about it. The upside of it is that the movie hall is usually almost empty and…

Understanding and Sustaining a Marriage

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Sometimes we are our own worst enemies. Sometimes we are our own hindrances. Sometimes, we are the problems of ourselves. if a lot of people were to seek the source of their problems, they would find it in a mirror. People always like to assume that the problem is someone else but the sad truth is that it is easier by a great deal to change yourself than to change someone else. A lot of people may be uncomfortable with what they’re about to read here but it’s my opinion,…

Young Nigerian men, I pity una – Viola Okolie

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Dear Young Men,   I never knew the day would come when I would actually write these words but: I pity you all, sometimes. I totally and honestly do and this is not satire or sarcasm or something. There are no hidden meanings or nuances behind the feeling of pure pity I feel when I see what the world and its female dog (otherwise known as Naija Facebook feminism), is trying to turn you all into. I remember when we were active in the dating game back in the days.…

Amaka Abara Hits back hard with Evidence

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This Ephraim/Amaka shaming kiniko isn’t going to fizzle out anytime soon, Amaka haf fired back at him with all the bazookas in her Arsenal and she did it with screenshots of their whole conversation. Bro wan display small madness for this app forgetting nobody has monopoly to ‘misyarn’, he no even remember say some people don sell their shame one cowry for afia ogbete😂 The Amaka Abara geh comot her gele, tie am tight for her waist and brought out heyez weh she dey carry shit hard shit for this…

Gold Digging | Man Exposes Clients Online

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Shebi I told you people that this zone be one week one trending? Yesterday was about a miserable wife shaming herself all in the name of calling out a side piece, today na one Agbaya married man shaming one girl like that on his wall. Only that this time, the babe fired back at him with proofs. Athink it’s safe to conclude that the ‘shaming’ category has it this week? Yass!😂😂 The Agbaya Ephraim Edeh wrote on his wall; “I have too many Ashawos on my friend list. I will…

What do Women want?

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One of the joys of being a semi-smart person like me is the ability to read, and comprehend, and also to note implied meanings and stuff. Like now ehn, I was ruminating on something I’ve wanted to write about for a long time, and it just so happened that I was flipping through the Good Book for research/study on something I’m doing much later, when my eye chanced upon the verse I’m quoting here below. Phillipians 4 vs 5. Very simply, it reads: “Let your moderation be known to all…