Marriage and its Wahala

Wonders shall never end! This world is going bunkers, humans are ‘wenting’ haywire. There are things I read and shudder and can’t help wondering whether they are for real

Adeogun Oluwakayode posted “I got this in my mail box this afternoon. She needs your advice, please!

“I am in a 20 plus year marriage. My husband molested my daughter from a previous marriage from the age of 11 to adulthood. I just found out about this. Apparently he stopped molesting her and switched to porn. This was 10 years ago and I just found out about all of it.

Can this marriage be saved? Should I even want it to?”

And some human beings are there commenting unbelievable things, am still in shock!???

Nwaeze O. Victor Jr commented “Though this isn’t cool, but I remember what my pastor always say before he joins a man and woman to become husband and wife. He always say,

“Will you take him/her as your lawfully wedded husband/wife, for better for worse…..?”

Guess your pastor says that too?

So you see, she just must forgive, learn and forget. Though it may be seemingly difficult.”

Can you imagine the konkonbility! Anyways he was schooled, ‘teachered’ and educated!??

Simisola Dabiri replied him “Though this isn’t cool, but I remember what my pastor always say before he joins a man and woman to become husband and wife. He always say,

“Will you take him/her as your lawfully wedded husband/wife, for better for worse…..?”

Guess your pastor says that too?

So you see, she just must forgive, learn and forget. Though it may be seemingly difficult.”

Bukola Obuchi Ajibola replied too “For real,  You marry a peadophile and you say forgive? Do you realise that it takes at least 20yrs of a persons life to recover from Sexual abuse because its an attack on the soul.  First prosecute the Bastard and file for damages before divorce proceedings unless of course Being MRS is greater than defending your Childs honour. Nansenze  Keep Marriage ko, Marriage keep ni.”

Opeoluwa Adetokunbo Aremu Okulaja told him “If it was your child would u say that ! From wot I’m reading , the man is good to go all in the name of spirikoko while the mother is to blame . When the church doesn’t do wot it’s supposed to do then the lord will allow the govt to do it. How could I give excused for this abuse and then call it bad habit ! Wow”

Adesupo Adesanya Okuleye vehemently told him “Fuck any pastor that will preach forgive, forget and continue. May thunder fire and consume such pastor.???”

Gbam! I support this ???

A fried brain of a human being Ugo Ben commented on the post “This is bad child molestation.show we are in the last day well the deed is done no going back she must talk it out with the husband and  forgive  him from her heart and be”

Funmilayo Akomelede, a another fried brain human (a woman actually)commented “It is horrible i say yes. But there is solution to every problem. It depends how where and when to reach for solution. I advise you prayerfully find time and strength to speak to your daughter one on one assuring her life is still out there waiting for her before sitting your husband down to discuss what actually led to this act. But if you cannot do that, if you have Bible living Pastor you can speak to him for solution to your husband problem and prayer. Or seek a grounded counsellor/rehab services for your husband and daughter.

Divorce is not an option here. The act has been done and what you need is way to recovery and not more pain. If you allow God to take control of your pain, you will be able to forgive your husband. Not only that your daughter will heal too. I

I emphatise with you but the decision is yours. I pray you come out of this stronger!”

Can you imagine what somebody’s father and Mother are saying o, God!??

Anyways she got replies befitting a senseless comment, Adesupo told her “Shut the fuck up woman. A child’s wellbeing is more important than her mother’s sham marriage to an evil man.

What the hell is wrong with these brain dead women. I see, they are brain dead, that is why they can make such horrible comments.”

Omobolanle Olorunfemi also replied her “@funmilayo akomolede you mean marriage is more important to you than your daughter?, let me tell you some men are not worth marrying and who tells you marriage is do or die and do you need any pastor to tell you your next point of action?, too bad, somebody molested your child you are talking like its just a small matter or do you think one pastor will tell you to leave your husband even if its obvious he is a lunatic?, in fact a real mother must know that such man must be dealt with and left to die alone, he is not worth any good woman, even as a born again there are some drastic action expected of you when such thing happens without consulting any pastor for an advise what if the pastor too is the same or even worse than the lunatic husband?if such happens to me I will make sure I cut off the man’s dick before leaving the idiot.”

Abiodun Sadiq told her “This woman is definitely a witch because only a blood sucking heartless womaan would give the kind of advice that this mentally unstable woman gave to a fellow woman. Madam, may such happen to your daughter by God’s grace. Then you can follow the same advice. Oloshi”

 

More and more people are still finishing her there right now, me ayam shocked words.

People like them are still commenting and I just weak pata pata

God abeg when are you coming? Abeg come take this people o cause we no suppose dey share this world with them.

 

 

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